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Song Lyric of the Day:

So keep your eyes set on the horizon / On the line where blue meets blue / And I would let that silver lining / Where I know it’d find you soon

Rachel Platten / “1000 Ships

I’m writing this at 11:30PM because this is the first real free time I’ve had all day. That’s pretty much how things have been going lately, at breakneck speed. The Relay for Life went really well. I made it through the night, which was a bit more challenging for me this year as it was my first night away from Coraline (at 267 days old). Sure, I was still in town, but I wasn’t around for her evening playtime, bedtime ritual, or morning wakeup. As it turned out, after being up for almost 24 hours straight, I only managed to quasi-nap for about three hours when I got home the morning after the Relay. The rest of the day I would essentially pass out anytime I sat down or got comfortable. Made for a long weekend. This year it took me about three days to feel like I’d fully recovered from the Relay — sucks getting older sometimes.

The week after the Relay was a doozy. Rich went out of town for work for the first time in ages, the first time Coraline and I would be alone in our new house. Rich was only gone one night, but that happened to be the Night the Lights Went Out in Knoxville. No sooner had I put Coraline to bed than a massive storm moved in, causing our lights to flicker a couple of times. I managed to find flashlights and candles just in time for when the power fully went out. I managed to get a few messages out via Twitter/Facebook using my cellphone, but since I don’t have a smartphone (just a semi-intelligent one), I couldn’t receive any responses in return, save for a few Twitter direct messages. The next day my sister came to my and Coraline’s rescue: She brought big bags of ice to try and save food we had in the freezer and then dropped us off at our parents’ house across town so I could work and we could enjoy air conditioning. When Rich got home later that night, he bought more ice to try to keep the stuff in the freezer as frozen as possible. The power ended up being out for four full days, so we lost everything in our main refrigerator in the kitchen as well as in the secondary fridge in our downstairs kitchenette. Rich managed to pack the freezer items into coolers and get them to his parents’ house’s freezer just in time. I can’t tell you how happy I was that he got stuff over there when he did, since I had frozen bags of breastmilk I was in danger of losing, which would have devastated me.

We spent the next couple nights coming home from work to a hot, dark house. Thursday night another massive storm hit, which woke me up at 1:45AM and had me up and terrified all night that a tornado was going to hit — it was that bad.  The next night, Friday, we packed up for our friends’ house in Sequoyah Hills; they’d invited us to stay at their house since their power had been restored the day before. Coraline and I spent two nights sleeping in air-conditioned luxury there, while Rich took one for the team and came home to sleep at our house for the dogs’ sakes and for protection (the security system’s battery backup had only lasted the first 12 hours of the power outage). We were so grateful to Don and Fran, Coraline’s honorary grandparents, for welcoming us into their home, particularly since their grandson Thomas was visiting at the time. We had fun swimming in their pool that Saturday afternoon — Coraline’s first time in a real pool — and eating yummy burgers after. It was a little while after that dinner that our next-door neighbor’s son texted Rich saying “I think I saw lights come on in your basement.” Turns out Abraham was right and that our power had been restored; his family, however, would be without power two more days as a tree had fallen and ripped the power lines from their house. Rich went home that night and left Coraline and I at Don and Fran’s since it would be hours before our house would be fully cooled off again. He came and picked us up Sunday morning, and it was glorious to go home and have power again.

So what lessons did I take away from the Great Power Outage of 2011? First, that we have awesome friends and family who stepped up and offered us places to stay (our friends’  house is much closer to our house than our parents’ houses are, which was the deciding factor for us staying there). Second, reading by candlelight/flashlight is highly overrated; it was really just an irritating pain in the ass to try to read like that. Last, I can manage without AC. I can manage without the Internet. I can manage without TV. Just not all at the same time. I was again reminded that I am NOT meant to live without modern conveniences like electricity and air conditioning. I am now convinced that had I lived in pre-electricity, pioneer times, I would’ve been one of their first recorded suicides. Give me air conditioning or give me death.

Once everything got back to normal, I of course got sick. I went to the express clinic by our house two Saturdays ago, where I was diagnosed with pharyngitis, which has turned out to be hands-down the most irritating illness I’ve ever had. I didn’t even feel that horrible, but I sounded like shit (there’s a reason pharyngitis rhymes with laryngitis), couldn’t talk without wheezing and losing my breath, had a horrible sore throat, and was so congested I felt like I was suffocating 24 hours a day. And it had been going on for weeks. Work has been ridiculously busy lately (job security!), so I only managed to get to the doctor again on Friday, when I was prescribed an antibiotic and another steroid. I am now no longer congested, no longer have a sore throat, can get through a sentence without wheezing, and have stopped coughing up my lungs. Thank God for those last two prescriptions.

So that’s what’s been going on at Casa Lee of late. Fun times. Fun times indeed.

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Dear Coraline: Month 9

*This was originally to be posted Thursday, June 23, 2011, the day you turned 9 months old, but thanks to a massive storm, power outage, an even worse storm, and other various disasters since then, it’s been delayed until now.

Dear Coraline,

As of 1AM this morning, you turned nine months old. The first day of this month (day 242) you had to go to the doctor, three days after you developed your first-ever fever. It turns out you had an ear infection, another not-so-fun first. You never let on that your ears were bothering you, so it’s a good thing the fever and your general misery tipped us off. You’d lost a bit of weight due to being sick and were down to about 17 1/2 pounds as of that doctor visit. Fortunately, you are now back to being hale and hearty and are rapidly gaining weight, including starting to outgrow a lot of your size nine months clothes (although you’re still in size 3 diapers). Your poppa agrees that we need to go shopping for some new clothes for you, which I love doing since baby clothes are adorable. Size 9-12 months, here we come!

Standing in cribYou’ve become a little nut this month, all personality and chattiness and ever-increasing mobility. You finally pulled up on your knees in your crib (day 243), prompting your poppa to hurry up and move your crib mattress from the middle to the lowest position, which worked out since on day 245 he caught you pulling all the way up to standing in your crib. I got lucky and saw you pull up to a standing position the very next day using your giraffe in your play yard. You spent all evening on day 249 pulling up using me and your poppa for leverage, making for a fun night for all of us. You’re quite fond of your downstairs play yard (which I like calling “the pen”) since you’ve got a lot of fun toys in there and are free to roam around however you want. As your mobility has increased, though, we’ve let you play free-range outside your play yard more often, which you love. You now take off crawling at warp speed in the blink of an eye, pulling up on the coffee table, couch, your play yard walls, even your exersaucer — whatever you can get your hands on. You’ve also developed a fascination with the fireplace, which we now have covered with bumpers for safety. And you made our day when you finally started to noticeably dance (day 265) to some of your toys’ music.

Standing tallYou sprouted tooth #7, the second left incisor on the bottom (day 242), and tooth #8, the second bottom right incisor (day 250), and enjoyed your first tooth brushing session on day 252. You are continuing to develop your palate, trying new foods more and more often. You’ve now tried squash (day 247); peas, which you LOVE (day 254); peaches, which you didn’t love (day 252); and even teething biscuits, which were a hit (day 255). However, it was on day 257 that you almost made your poppa’s heart burst with pride: You saw him eating broccoli and wanted to try it, and you LOVED it.

Mmm ... broccoliYour newfound mobility led to a very sweet moment on day 252, when you spotted our dog Caleb (still your favorite) on the floor nearby. You started crawling toward him and he started crawling toward you, and you giggled and smiled as he kissed you once you met up. That was also the same day you first cruised hand-over-hand around your play yard. We bought you a baby pool, but it was too cold the day we tried it out (day 255). You looked absolutely adorable in your bathing suit, though, and Caleb went nuts over your matching sun hat, kissing you until your hat flew off your head and you tipped over.

In search of a baby poolYou seem to have bypassed a lot of the social anxiety we’d been warned about. You study people very closely before deciding they’re worthy of a smile and have been very brave when new people have wanted to hold you. You did, however, leap into my arms at your ear infection recheck appointment when your doctor reached for you. You didn’t cry after seeing your abuelo for the first time in two weeks after he got back from Puerto Rico; we’d all expected at least a few tears, but you smiled as soon as you heard his voice. You’ve enjoyed visits here at our house with your other grandparents, too, and do really well with them both. Your poppa and I were particularly proud of how well you did during a sad occasion, the viewing of our friend’s father (day 270); you didn’t make a peep or fuss at all while we were there. One of your most significant social milestones came when we met up with a couple of my friends from high school and their babies (day 261). You liked Michelle’s daughter, Prisha, but you went absolutely NUTS over Neeta’s son, Armaan. I had to keep pulling you off him, you were being so aggressive going after him. I will say your poppa wasn’t too thrilled hearing about you chasing a boy at your tender age. I mean, just look at poor Armaan’s expression, then look at yours. Crazy, right?

When Arman Met Coraline

When Arman Met Coraline …

You enjoyed hanging out with your honorary grandparents’ grandsons Thomas and Matthew (day 268), particularly Thomas, who is 9 years old. That was the same day we went to a neighborhood association cookout and you met tons of new people all at once. You also saw some familiar faces, like our neighbors who have babysat you, which made you happy. You received tons of compliments and comments about your hair from just about everyone there. Oh, sweetie. Your hair. It’s taken on a life of its own. Most days it’s curly and cute as can be. Other days it looks like you scalped Little Orphan Annie and dyed her red hair brown. Either way, if I got a dollar for every time someone has commented on your curly hair, we’d have about half your college tuition by now. It’s insane the amount of attention your hair gets — insane.

Give me a head with hairPerhaps one of your best days this month fell, appropriately enough, on Father’s Day (day 269). We treated your poppa to brunch at Tomato Head and then enjoyed a walk around downtown. You were happy as a clam, snug and face-forward in the Baby Bjorn on your poppa’s chest, swinging your feet, flapping your arms, and smiling at everyone we encountered. I know that day meant a lot to your poppa, and you made it extra special for him. Later that day you enjoyed your first bottle full of water; the sippy cup is still a work in progress. That was also the day I got the biggest laugh I’ve ever gotten from you. I would creep up to you in your exersaucer and you would just die laughing. We were laughing so hard, in fact, I was almost crying. It was awesome, especially since you typically laugh more for your poppa.

Hanging out with PoppaYour ninth month ended on a literal dark note when a massive storm hit — the first time your poppa went out of town since you were born, no less — and we lost power (day 271). I don’t think you even noticed, to be honest. The storm was just starting when you went to sleep for the night, so you didn’t get to see me wielding a flashlight and lighting candles all over the house. I was just happy it turned out you didn’t need your nightlight or sound machine to continue sleeping happily. Small graces and all, especially since we still don’t have power. Yesterday, you started rolling your tongue and sticking it out the side of your mouth in concentration, which is too cute for words. I’ll do my best to capture that on film.

All in all, you continue to amaze me and your poppa with pretty much everything you do. You’re smart, sweet, and funny. You’re getting more affectionate, which is something I’ve been waiting for. You reach up for us to pick you up and bury your face in our shoulders or against our chests. You “kiss” us by either sucking on our noses or biting our lips. You grin from ear to ear when we walk in your grandparents’ house after work each night. You enjoy snuggling with us in our bed on weekend mornings. It’s the little moments like that and tiny gestures that make every single second spent with you the most meaningful ones. I look forward to a lot more of them in month 10.

Cutielove,

Mommy

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Walking to Fight Cancer

In a few minutes I’m leaving to head downtown to the World’s Fair Park for my 10th American Cancer Society Downtown Knoxville Relay for Life, my second as event chair. If you’re so inclined, I’d greatly appreciate a donation in support of the fight against cancer. I’m walking in honor of my mom, a 9 1/2 year breast cancer survivor.

To read all about why I do this year after year, read My Cancer Story here.

You can donate to me here.
You can donate to one of my teammates here.

Thanks!

 

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I’m Not Dead Yet

Song Lyric of the Day:

Furry walls can take you on a magic carpet ride / Furry walls surround you till you got no place to hide / Let your furry fingers be your guide / Furry walls turn out the light / Furry walls please stay the night

Infant Sorrow / “Furry Walls

Wow — it’s been longer than I realized since I last updated. To the eight of you still reading, sorry about that. So what happened? Life, basically. To be more specific, life filled with illness. First Coraline got sick. She developed her first-ever fever on a Friday night, and by the following Monday was beyond miserable. It turned out she had an ear infection, although she never once pulled on her ear to clue us in. That is, other than playing with her ear while sucking her thumb, which she regularly does when hungry or tired. In addition to the ear infection, Coraline also had the cold from hell, with a horrible, hacking cough that made her cry. Rich and I agree she was sicker than when she had RSV, which is saying something. Most nights all three of us would suffer from lack of sleep since the poor kid would spend most of the night coughing and crying. It was awful seeing our little girl, who is normally so happy and non-fussy, whiny and crying from sheer misery. A few days after she got sick, I developed horrible congestion and my own hacking cough. Almost two weeks later, I still have a bit of a cough. Add in the humidity and heat here in Knoxville these days, and I’m now also wheezy. That’s right — my asthma’s kicked in again. My inhaler helps a bit, although the weather not being so oppressively hot and hazy would help more. Here’s hoping we get out of the ’90s soon. At least until my car AC is working again (we got it fixed in March and it’s not working again. Pattie is not amused).

So what else have we been up to besides illness? Work and the usual daily grind. Although Rich and I did enjoy a performance of Spamalot at the Tennessee Theatre in late May. It was awesomely hilarious (I was particularly fond of Herbert). Now I’d like to get tickets to see Young Frankenstein when it plays at the Tennessee in November. Because, really, if ever there were a Broadway musical based on one of my all-time favorites movies that I’m destined to see, it’s this one.

Despite being sick for a few weeks, Coraline still managed to practice pulling up on a regular basis. She’s now a pro at standing, although still with support. She’s gotten to the point now where she’ll cruise a bit, using whatever’s on hand to hang onto, including her play yard walls.

Standing at the Gate

Standing tall

Despite the ridiculous heat here in Knoxville, we’re still looking forward to the start of summer. Mostly because it means we can spend quality time letting Coraline play in her baby pool. We introduced her to it yesterday, and while she liked the idea of it (she loves bathtime), the water turned out to still be a bit too cold for her taste. We’ll let it keep warming up and try again in a few days. But at least I got some cute pictures of Coraline in her yellow swimsuit and matching hat. Not only did Rich and I think she looked adorable, our dog Caleb (her favorite) wholeheartedly agreed. 

Smiling at Caleb

Smiling at Caleb

In fact, Caleb thought Coraline looked so cute, he kissed her until the hat flew off her head and she tipped over.

A Kiss to Knock Her Hat Off

A kiss to knock her hat off*

*No babies or dogs were harmed in the taking of this photo. There was just a lot of saliva.

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Dear Coraline: Month 8

Dear Coraline,

As of 1AM this morning, you turned eight months old. I’m not sure exactly how much you weigh right now, but you’re definitely growing. I suspect you’re around 18, maybe 19, pounds now and are starting to outgrow some of your size six months clothes. You now fit into some of your size nine months clothes and are still in size 3 diapers.

You’ve been such an active baby this month. You started army crawling (on Easter Sunday, no less; day 213) and can now sit unassisted (you first pulled yourself into a sitting position by yourself on day 220). You love the independence you now have to move around on your own, and your poppa and I love watching you flit around from toy to toy. You also set land-speed records whenever I set my camera down or you spot your poppa’s cell phone within reach; you move fastest for electronics.

Coraline crawlingWe enjoyed some first holidays together this month. We celebrated your first Easter with a visit to the Easter Bunny at the mall (day 212; you were unimpressed) and an Easter basket at home. I also dressed you up in bunny ears your aunt bought you; you were even less amused than when you met the Easter Bunny. We also celebrated my first official Mother’s Day (day 227); I say official since I was pregnant with you during Mother’s Day last year. Mother’s Day was also your first visit to Market Square downtown, where we ate brunch at The Tomato Head. You absolutely loved people-watching, which is something your great-grandma, Abuela Tulita, loved to do. So thank you for that. It made me feel like she was with me that day.

Disgruntled Bunny

First Easter BasketYour personality continues to develop, and you never fail to amuse us with your antics, like when you grabbed your cousin Stephen by the hair and tried to kiss him (day 217) and how you started to turn around while we read you bedtime stories so you can watch us reading (day 218). Your first hint of stranger anxiety came about when our friend dropped by the house one Sunday (day 220), but you got over it pretty quickly. That was also the same day we noticed you talking to and giggling at your toys. Your Auntie Tamara gave you a Curious George doll that chitters like a monkey (day 226), and you’re head over heels for him. You even tried sharing one of your Easter eggs with him, the first time you ever made your toys co-mingle (day 228).

Giggles for GeorgeYour sixth tooth finally broke through (day 221), the upper second right incisor. You tried sweet potatoes (day 219) and apples (day 223), and used a sippy cup for the first time (day 233). You started holding your elbow while you suck your thumb (day 219). You weaned yourself the day before you turned seven months old and are no longer breastfeeding. As of day 228, you now have a play yard in our den so you have a safe, dog-free zone in which to play. You got ambitious and pulled yourself up on your knees when playing with your Sit-to-Stand Giraffe (day 230), which you continue to do using both your giraffe and your play yard walls, something I liken to the velociraptor in Jurassic Park testing for weak spots on the fence.

Sippy CupYou’ve also been very social this month, enjoying visits with your grandparents and your Auntie Kirsten, among others, and attending your first non-family get-together (day 233). You rode in a shopping cart at Target for the first time, as well as mastered traditional crawling that same day (day 240). Bye-bye, army crawl! You also hit an unhappy milestone this month: your first fever, 100.3 degrees (day 239), which had you feeling absolutely miserable. Your poppa and I think it might be related to teething, though. Be thankful teething is something you won’t remember.

This month has been so much fun. You’ve grown leaps and bounds, and continue to do so almost faster than your poppa and I can keep up with. We love watching you figure things out and learn new skills, puzzling things out on your own. I love you more than I can say and can’t wait to see what adventures month nine brings.

Coraline & Mommylove,

Mommy

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Mother’s Day 2011: My First

Song Lyric of the Day:

In my daughter’s eyes everyone is equal / Darkness turns to light and the / World is at peace / This miracle God gave to me gives me / Strength when I am weak / I find reason to believe / In my daughter’s eyes

Martina McBride / “In My Daughter’s Eyes

Today was officially my first Mother’s Day. Last year I was about five months pregnant on Mother’s Day, a day during which Rich treated me to a mom-to-be lunch at Latitude 35. Last year was great, but this year was so much better since, of course, miss Coraline is now with us. Rich let me choose where I wanted to have lunch or brunch, so I chose brunch at The Tomato Head (I love me some Belgian waffles). It was Coraline’s first visit to downtown Knoxville, and oh, how she ate up the sights and sounds in Market Square; she’s an avid people-watcher, just like my Abuela Tulita was.

Coraline and Mommy on Market Square

Coraline and Mommy on Market Square

We ran into some friends, whom Coraline sized up and deemed worthy of smiling for. Once inside the restaurant, Coraline decided she’d rather be held than stuck in her stroller. She’s happiest when she’s a part of the action; I’m surprised she didn’t get whiplash from watching all the people and waitstaff zipping past us. Rich and I took turns holding her while we ate; he and I have, like most parents, gotten quite adept at eating one-handed.

After brunch, we took a nice walk around the square, over to Gay Street and Mast General Store, then back to Rita’s Ice for some dessert, me hobbling the whole way on the pinky toe I’m pretty sure I broke yesterday. Once we got home, it was time for all three of us to take a nap. Coraline resisted as usual, but I’d rather have her sleep through the night than nap if that’s what it boils down to, especially since she sleeps like a champ overnight (10-13 hours).

***

I’m still learning my way as a mom. I like to think I’m doing a pretty good job, learning as I go. I’m incredibly blessed to have a happy, healthy baby girl. I’m also incredibly blessed to have my own amazing mom, who, for as long as I can remember, has shown me what unconditional love is and what it means to always put your children’s best interests ahead of your own. She’s done and sacrificed a lot for me (and my sisters) throughout my life. I look to her to continue showing me my way as I navigate new momhood. And, like Coraline, my love for my mom is more than I can put in words.

Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms, step-moms, aunts, and honorary moms out there. Thanks for all you do.

Coraline and Mommy Mother's Day

Coraline and Mommy on our first Mother's Day

Coraline and Abuela

Coraline and her Abuela the day before Mother's Day (photo taken by my sis)

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Addressing the Monkey on My Back

Song Lyric of the Day:

You never use words you can’t afford / A house of cards and it’s a sign / So wait up / You never get nervous anymore / So wait up / You never get nervous anymore / What did you want me to say?

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What a crazy couple of days it’s been, huh? Thanks to poor Coraline’s teething pains (tooth #6) Sunday night, Rich and I were still awake when news of Osama Bin Laden’s death first broke across all the TV stations. I’m still processing the news, like trying to make sense of the fact that the monster who physically and emotionally decimated my hometown, the city where I was born, was finally killed almost 10 long years after 9/11. I can’t say I felt joy upon hearing the news, but I certainly felt relief. And a kind of shock that we finally got him. I think it’s impossible for me to feel genuine joy or happiness about it since him being dead won’t bring back any of the thousands of people he killed, won’t make things go back to how they used to be, won’t instantly end wars, won’t return us to a more innocent existence. But it’s certainly a relief.

***

Remember how I finally took the plunge and joined LinkedIn awhile back to start networking in the hopes of landing freelance writing work? Well, I’ve also finally started to deal with the writing monkey on my back. Which is good since you need to write to get published. I put pen to paper, as it were (OK, I typed on my MacBook), and knocked out a personal essay I’ve been wanting to write for a little while now. Rich liked it — he’s a great, supportive hubby that way — and my best friend and fabulously gifted writer Caren also liked it. Caren also gave me invaluable feedback which will help me refine it over the next few days so it’ll be in great shape for submission to the website I’ve got my eye on. Me being a superstitious dork, that’s all I’ll say about it for now. But I feel really good that I finally wrote something besides a blog post — it’s been too long. And in the hopes of real-life networking and general motivation and inspiration to write more, I’m going to go to the monthly Knoxville Writers’ Guild meeting tomorrow night. (If you’re there, I’ll be the quiet one hiding in the back row.) Just the fact that the Guild has the apostrophe in the right place — and that they used an apostrophe at all — warms this word nerd’s heart and gives me confidence that I’ll be around genuine, bona-fide writers. Should be interesting.

Who knows? I might be so inspired by the meeting tomorrow night that I’ll relight the fire under my ass and get back to work on my novel. You know — since I have all the words up in my head already. Now to get them out onto some paper.

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Dear Coraline: Month 7

Dear Coraline,

As of 1AM this morning, you turned seven months old. It’s hard to believe you are now past the half-year mark. You’re approximately 17 pounds, approaching 18, and are starting to fit into clothes sized nine months. You still wear size 3 diapers, which I expect you’ll be in for some time. You’re still as sweet as ever, smiling readily for everyone, and talking up a storm. One of your poppa and my favorite things to do is listen to you talk to yourself in the morning. You’ll chat to yourself, trying out sounds, even testing out how loud you can be. It’s awesome to listen to. When we picked you up after work the other night, your abuelo even swore you said something that sounded an awful lot like “hello.” We’ll give him the benefit of the doubt since both your poppa and I have heard you say something that sounds an awful lot like “mama,” too.

Coraline CloseupYour first big milestone this month: solid foods. We introduced you to carrots the day you turned six months old (day 181). And, boy, did you love them. You very quickly got the hang of eating from a spoon (although we’ve fed you cereal that way several times) and eagerly opened your mouth for your next bite. It was messy, messier than I expected, but our dog Troubadour was more than happy to help clean up your high chair when we were done.
Eating CarrotsAfter carrots, your poppa and I introduced you to plums (day 192), which you weren’t as crazy about. Seems the tartness was a bit much, although it was funny to hear you sigh loudly and then shudder a full two minutes after you’d had a bite. Next you tried bananas (day 208), which you definitely liked more than you liked plums. Next will be sweet potatoes, so get ready. (We have to wait several days before introducing you to new foods to make sure you’re not allergic to them.)

Eating PlumsYou’re still very social, not yet exhibiting any signs of stranger or separation anxiety, which is great. When your poppa took a day off work (day 186) to spend with you, the two of you ended up visiting your Gramma Fran and Grandpa Don, and your Auntie Kirsten at her job. At your cousin Stephen’s second birthday party (day 198) you made fast friends with his Grandma Jane and Grandma Debbie, to name a couple. That was also the day your hair started to develop a noticeable curl; your poppa has already apologized to you since it looks like you might have his hair. It’s already the exact same color as his. As if that day wasn’t exciting enough, that’s the day we noticed you were cutting a third tooth, your upper right incisor. Which might explain why you went the entire day without napping. The very next day, Sunday (day 199), I noticed you were cutting a second upper tooth, the left incisor. And then three days after that, you started cutting another tooth, the second left incisor. You now have those three teeth coming in up top and the two on the bottom, giving you a grand total of five teeth. Pretty impressive for a seven-month-old. Soon we’ll have to take you for your first dental checkup.

Coraline As Tulita

Here you are mimicking an expression your late great-grandma Tulita used to make.

You’ve had a very social month, enjoying a workout with poppa (day 202), visiting friends with us, giggling at and reaching for your cousin Stephen when saying goodnight (day 208), having lunch with me and a few friends, and essentially seeing everyone in your family. You held your bottle for an entire bedtime feeding (day 187) and FINALLY giggled just for me (day 209), which was wonderful since you usually giggle for everyone but me (you think your poppa is the end-all, be-all clown).

SmileyThe most amazing milestone you’ve hit this month is that you finally sat on your own (day 204), right there on your poppa’s office floor. We were so proud of you and just awed to see you do that. You’re getting better at it, too, sitting up for longer periods of time and getting really close to righting yourself when you tip over. You’re also rocking on your knees like you’re getting ready to crawl. Which means your poppa and I have to hurry up and childproof.

I usually write your monthly letter early in the day, but today I had an ulterior motive for waiting to do it so late: We took you to see the Easter Bunny at West Town Mall today. It meant a lot to me to get your picture taken with the Easter Bunny since tomorrow is your first Easter. You handled it like a pro, much like when you met Santa in December. You were very obviously unimpressed to be seated in the lap of a six-foot-tall quasi-rodent and didn’t much feel like smiling. Or crying. Or really reacting with anything other than boredom. It was only when the photographer’s assistant worked to get you to smile that you did. And it was worth the wait.

Meeting the Easter BunnyI tell you every day, but I love you so much and am so lucky and proud to be your mommy. Here’s to a great month eight.

love,

Mommy

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Hopping Into Easter Weekend

Song Lyric of the Day:

Ain’t going back to Barton Hollow / Devil gonna follow me e’er I go / Won’t do me no good washing in the river / Can’t no preacher man save my soul

The Civil Wars / “Barton Hollow

I’m looking forward to the holiday weekend. Work today is a short day to help kick things off, so I’ll be sprinting out the door at 2 o’clock. Lent ends on Saturday, along with my self-imposed Lenten sacrifice of deep-fried food. The last time I ate fried food was dinner on Ash Wednesday, March 8, when I hit Bojangle’s so I could go out with one last fix of fried chicken and seasoned fries. Since then I’ve resisted the temptation to cheat, which has been hard. No donuts. No chimichangas or hard-shell tacos. No regular potato chips. None of my dad’s tostones. No fried French fries (I made oven-baked fries once). No boneless buffalo wings. You get the idea. But I’ve survived and I’m healthier for it. I’ll likely eat deep-fried food again — this is me, after all — but now I know I can survive without it, so I’ll definitely eat it a lot less — I’m even a soft-taco convert now.

What I’m looking forward to most this weekend is Coraline turning 7 months old on Saturday, followed by her first Easter on Sunday. I’m hoping we can squeeze in a visit to the Easter Bunny at the mall for a photo. It’ll be interesting to see if she handles meeting the Easter Bunny even half as well as she handled meeting Santa Claus. And she’ll be getting her first Easter basket from us, too. That’s mostly for me and Rich to enjoy, though. Okay, it’s mostly for me. But Rich will no doubt enjoy it, too.

And heading into this weekend, Coraline’s hit another milestone: Last night she sat up for several minutes on her own. Can’t wait to see what she does next.

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Surviving Duck Duck Goose

Song Lyric of the Day:

So tell me when you hear my heart stop / You’re the only one that knows / Tell me when you hear my silence / There’s a possibility I wouldn’t know

Lykke Li / “Possibility

Last Wednesday I went to the big, biannual children’s consignment sale, Duck Duck Goose. And good lord — what an experience. Taking place in an old K-Mart location in West Knoxville, I’d heard about how crazy it could be, both from one of my sisters and friends who are moms. Not to mention the packed parking lot whenever I’d pass it. I’d wanted to attend their fall event, but I’d just given birth to Coraline and couldn’t drive; by the time I found out it was going on, it was the last day. So for their spring event, I was determined to see firsthand what the fuss was all about. First, I registered in their First Moms Club; as such, I received a special wristband that got me into the preview sale Wednesday night (it would open to the public the following day). I got in line to be admitted at about 7:10PM; I got in the door right at 7:30. Once inside, I was overwhelmed by the sheer madness of it — so many people and so much STUFF to look through. Basically, if it’s an item for a baby, toddler, or child, they’ve got it. I spent about an hour shopping; I didn’t shop longer since I quickly tired of slogging through the piles and seemingly endless racks of stuff.

Here’s a rundown of what I picked up for Coraline.

Nursery-rhyme stacking blocks, a punching penguin, pop-up animals, a bilingual drum, and an alphabet/number block:

Toys!

New used toys!

A closeup of the stacking nursery-rhyme blocks:

Nursery rhyme blocks

Nursery rhyme blocks

Some summer outfits, including two with ladybugs (one with a headband):

Summer outfits

Summer outfits

A couple more light summer outfits:

More summer outfits

More summer outfits

Two pairs of jeans and a Winnie the Pooh two-piece outfit:

Jeans and another outfit

Jeans and another outfit

Various onesies:

Onesies

Onesies

Shoes, glorious shoes, including three with the tags still on and a $3 pair of Robeez:

Shoes!

Shoes!

A beautiful, fancy dress with the tags still on:

Flower dress

Flower dress

And my favorite item, a dress I would so wear if it were in my size, also new with the tags still on:

Polka-dot dress

Polka-dot dress

It took me an hour and 15 minutes to check out from the time I got in line with my items. Was it worth it? Hell yes. Although next time I’ll pay the $10 to charity to “duck out of line” — volunteers hold your place in line until you’re ready to check out. All told, I bought Coraline five like-new toys (my fear of germs kept me from buying ones in slightly more used condition), 11 outfits, two dresses, two pairs of jeans, and eight pairs of shoes. For $94. So you can bet that I’ll be going back to their fall event. And I will most definitely be ducking out of line.

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